It's hard. In a world that values the "bottom line" and self over others, it's hard to be others-focused, slower paced and not as accomplishment-driven. Especially for a girl who gets satisfaction from producing and accomplishing, it's just hard! I want to make strides towards a slower life though, day by day. One way I've been trying to cultivate this in our lives is by finding ways to slow down our food.
Slow food became a beautiful thing to me, a lofty-yet-noble goal for my growing young family. Originating in Italy, the birthplace of pasta and old women who insist you eat more than your stomach can hold, the Slow Food movement is alive and well. The organization’s logo is a snail, and the explanation for their name is that it’s an ironic way of saying no to fast food— Slow Food means living an unhurried life, beginning at the table. Oxenreider, Tsh (2014-02-04). Notes from a Blue Bike: The Art of Living Intentionally in a Chaotic World
I saw the value of slow food while I was in Italy and my heart longed for that culture to permeate my own busy American way of life. I craved walking the streets for fresh, only in season finds and meats hung outside for the picking. Fresh breads without preservatives and the beauty of knowing where and from whom your food was coming.
Food that takes time to prepare. Patience and resourcefulness and then joy when you savor the food you've waited to receive. Food becoming more of a gift than a given.
I'm currently sitting at my kitchen table, morning light streaming in, eating a fruit of which I'm actually not sure what it is, and soaking up the stillness before the day begins. A day filled with baby loving, cleaning, planning and relaxing with family.
This is one small step for me. What small step can you take to create a more intentional life?
This is such a beautifully written post, Natasha! I totally agree with you, and although I haven't put TOO much thought into it, I'd love to begin really thinking more about how to make that area in my life more intentional.
ReplyDeleteYour slow mornings sound so wonderful!
Thanks, Jenna -- yes, it's definitely a work in progress, but I'm seeing the fruit from it already.
ReplyDeleteI love this post, Natasha! I think one of the things I'm most drawn to about cooking is the slow pace of it. I love that some meals take hours to cook, that some meals take time to chop vegetables or to let risotto soak in broth and yummy flavors! Next time I'm in need of a book, I'm definitely coming to you for a recommendation :)
ReplyDeleteyay! yeah I've got some good recommendations for ya! ;)
ReplyDeleteTotally agree with finding ways to slow down. I had a trip to the ER a few years ago that warned me of the same problem.
ReplyDeleteWow, crazy that you had a similar experience. It was definitely a scary time and woke me up in a lot of ways.
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